So, how many of you feel when it comes to dating you have a huge bolder or wall that you are not wanting to let anyone in?!?
Maybe it’s because the dates you have been on have not been the greatest or you have been “ghosted” or you meet them once and you really have an amazing date but then you never hear from the again.
I want you to step back and think now hear me out. Before you keep accusing the guy right a way. I want you to look at yourself? And asking these question:
How am I approaching this date? Am I already going into it saying, “ he isn’t going to show up?, or “oh geez let’s see how this goes”!
By putting those thoughts out there you are already doubting yourself and it’s already not going to work out.
This is what I have started to do now and maybe it will help you. I started saying to myself, “ I am going to be open, I am ready to be my authentic self and I am excited for what’s to come”!
You know what?!? That mind-shift has changed the game for me. I truly hope that you are willing to try that. I promise you will see a change in the way you approach not just your next date but just meeting people in life!
Let me know below if this was helpful ❤️